Robert De Niro and the Rise of Later-in-Life Parenthood

Robert De Niro recently welcomed his seventh child at the age of 79, sparking a conversation about the double standard surrounding older fathers versus mothers. While women face scrutiny for delaying motherhood, older men often receive praise for their continued virility. This trend is mirrored by several other celebrities who have embraced parenthood later in life.

Eva Longoria

Eva Longoria, known for her role in “Desperate Housewives,” became a mother for the first time at age 43 with the birth of her son, Santiago. She has expressed gratitude for waiting, stating that having more wisdom and patience in her 40s was a benefit. Longoria has since shifted her focus to family, even declining acting opportunities to prioritize her son.

Cameron Diaz

Cameron Diaz, a star of 90s romantic comedies, initially resisted motherhood. After marrying Benji Madden in 2015, she changed her mind and announced the birth of their daughter, Raddix, in 2019. In a later interview with Naomi Campbell, Diaz shared that she chose to experience motherhood in the second half of her life. The couple welcomed a son, Cardinal Madden, in March 2024.

Hilary Swank

Oscar-winning actress Hilary Swank longed for motherhood and announced in 2023, nearing age 50, that she was expecting twins. She subsequently gave birth to a daughter and a son. Swank is now fully embracing motherhood and has stepped back from acting.

Janet Jackson

Janet Jackson holds the distinction of becoming a mother for the first time at age 50 in 2017. Her relationship with the father of her son, Eissa, Wissam Al Mana, ended shortly after his birth. Jackson has spoken about the challenges of being a working mother, emphasizing her commitment to raising her son independently, though she does rely on assistance when working.

Meryl Streep

Meryl Streep exemplifies the possibility of balancing motherhood and a successful career. She has four children and considers raising them her greatest achievement. During the 2024 Cannes Film Festival, Streep proudly stated she produced four children, viewing it as her most significant accomplishment.

Robert De Niro’s Expanding Family

Robert De Niro has seven children with four different women—two each with Diahnne Abbott, Toukie Smith and Grace Hightower, as well as one with Tiffany Chen. He welcomed his seventh child, Gia Virginia Chen-De Niro, with girlfriend Tiffany Chen in May 2023. De Niro has said the key to parenting is support, as long as children aren’t hurting themselves or engaging in destructive behavior. His children range in age from 57 to 2 years old.