Actor David Harbour recently addressed the status of his relationship with his former wife, Lily Allen, and clarified the nature of his professional dynamic with *Stranger Things* co-star Millie Bobby Brown. In a profile published by Variety, Harbour confirmed he respects Allen’s creative process following the release of her recent work while dismissing rumors of a hostile environment on the set of the Netflix hit series.
David Harbour on Lily Allen’s Artistic Expression

David Harbour and Lily Allen were married for four years before their divorce. Following their separation, Allen released the album *It’s Not Me, It’s You*—often discussed in the context of her personal life—and more recently, fans and critics have analyzed the themes within her broader discography. Harbour told *Variety* that while he acknowledges Allen’s right to channel her experiences into her art, the record does not reflect his own perspective.
“I do believe that it is the privilege of every artist to use their experience to create art, and so I respect her for doing that,” Harbour stated. He maintained a firm boundary regarding the details of their time together, noting that he values his private life and the privacy of those he has interacted with. According to *Variety*, Harbour declined to comment further on the specifics of the relationship, emphasizing that the complexities of personal stories are best left private.
Clarifying the On-Set Dynamic with Millie Bobby Brown
Harbour also addressed reports concerning his relationship with Millie Bobby Brown, who has played his on-screen daughter, Eleven, since the debut of *Stranger Things* in 2016. Addressing rumors that Brown had filed formal complaints against him, Harbour characterized their dynamic as a long-term professional relationship that, like any family, occasionally involved friction.
“We worked together for 10 years during her formative teenage years, playing father and daughter,” Harbour explained to *Variety*. He acknowledged that disagreements were inevitable over a decade of production but insisted that any tension was resolved through direct communication between the two actors.
Harbour dismissed the idea of a deep-seated conflict, stating, “There is a special bond there. I love her. She loves me.” He confirmed that he and Brown successfully cleared the air after moving past the external noise of a high-profile, multi-million dollar production.
What’s Next for the Stranger Things Cast
The fifth and final season of *Stranger Things* is currently in production. Despite the conclusion of the series, Harbour indicated that his professional relationship with Brown may continue in future projects.
* Production Status: The final season is currently filming in Atlanta.
* Relationship Status: Harbour described the bond with Brown as “special,” noting they intend to collaborate again.
* Media Context: Harbour’s comments serve as the first official acknowledgment of the rumors surrounding his on-set conduct, which had previously been subject to tabloid speculation in outlets like the *Daily Mail*.
By addressing these topics directly, Harbour has set a standard for managing public perception while maintaining personal boundaries. As the production of *Stranger Things* reaches its conclusion, both actors appear focused on the final season and their respective careers beyond the Hawkins-based franchise.