Olcay Gulsen Responds to Ruud de Wild’s Stoma Remark

Dutch entrepreneur Olcay Gulsen has publicly addressed a painful comment made by her ex-partner, radio DJ Ruud de Wild, regarding her reaction to his temporary stoma. The response came during an appearance on the ‘Zelfspodcast’ with Jaap Reesema and Sander Schimmelpenninck, as reported by RTL Boulevard.

The Remark and Its Impact

De Wild stated in a recent television appearance that Gulsen had expressed she would not want to be with a man who had a stoma. Gulsen described the comment as a “huge insult” and said she was “genuinely touched and saddened” by it. She emphasized that the remark overshadowed her weekend and caused her significant emotional distress.

Years of Support

Gulsen clarified that De Wild was diagnosed with an illness shortly after they began their relationship and she provided him with extensive care, stating she “took care of him day and night.” She also pointed out that De Wild only had a stoma for a short period, yet they remained together for years afterward. She characterized De Wild’s statement as “character assassination,” suggesting it misrepresented her true feelings and actions during that time.

Communication and Response

Following the public statement, Gulsen sent De Wild an email to express her feelings, choosing that method of communication over a phone call to avoid an immediate emotional confrontation. De Wild reportedly responded, explaining that his comment was more about his own insecurities and fears – specifically, his belief that no one would want to be with someone who had a stoma – rather than a direct reflection of Gulsen’s attitude.

Aftermath and Reflection

Gulsen expressed frustration with the public attention and negativity that followed De Wild’s remark, stating she felt she had “wasted a few days” dealing with the fallout. Despite the pain caused by the situation, she acknowledged the importance of addressing it and moving forward.

Conflicting Accounts

Although De Wild made the statement about Gulsen’s reaction to his stoma, reports from MediaCourant indicate that Gulsen has denied ever making such a statement, with Patty Brard stating that Gulsen was “in shock” upon hearing De Wild’s claim.