Lavender marriage is one thing, but for husband and wife, Samantha Wynn Greenstone and Jacob Hoff, their arrangement is a little different.
Samantha is a straight woman, while Jacob identifies as a gay man; though, the couple is very much in love and intimate, despite their sexual orientations.
And now, they’ve welcomed a baby together, and no, they didn’t use IVF! Speaking previously to the Daily Mail, Jacob said: ‘We did it the old-fashioned birds and the bees way.’
‘I would say we made love and it was lovely,’ Samantha added.
The couple welcomed a baby boy to the world in December. Samantha told her followers: ‘Labor was beautiful/scary/painful, but overall the best adventure.
‘I ate 27395 Luigi Italian Ices and had my taint sliced open, but I would do it all again to get to be this boy’s mommy.’
speaking to PEOPLE, they said: ‘We had a son! We are keeping his actual name private and will be referring to him publicly by his stage name: Baby Wynn hoff.
‘Our son made his appearance in november just in time for us to celebrate our one-year wedding anniversary with the best gift ever.’
Their little bundle of joy weighed 7 lbs 15 oz, and measured 18.5 inches long, per the publication.
Jacob, 32, and Samantha, 38, proudly showed off the baby bump at a premiere in October 2025.
He Identifies as Gay and Married a Woman – Here’s How They Make It Work
A man who identifies as gay has opened up about his loving marriage to a woman, explaining their connection goes beyond sexuality.Jacob, who is married to Samantha wynn Greenstone, shared how a conversation about the location of the stomach led to him realising his feelings for his now-wife.
“She was talking about how right now is were yoru stomach is, and it’s where the umbilical cord attaches. What I’m picking up is that you guys share a spiritual umbilical cord,” Jacob recalled. “Just hearing it phrased in that way was enough for me to be like, ‘I’ve got to text Jacob and ask if he has feelings for me.’ The rest is history!”
The couple tied the knot in November 2024 and are very much in love, maintaining an active sex life despite their orientations. They regularly share insights into their unusual marriage on social media.
“We get this question a lot. Why are you gay but marrying a woman?” jacob said in a video. “samantha is the person that I’m connected to spiritually.”
“She’s my soulmate, my partner, the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and that oftentimes transcends just plain old sexuality,” he explained. “And we are attracted to each other. We’re intimate. It just is on a different level.”
[Image of Samantha Wynn Greenstone/Instagram]
[Image of Samantha Wynn Greenstone/Instagram]
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