Robert L. Tom: A Life of Faith, Service, and Adventure
Robert L. Tom, a devoted man of faith and a lifelong adventurer, peacefully passed away on November 30, 2025, at the CHP Inpatient Hospice facility in Defiance, Ohio, at the age of 91. Born on March 2, 1934, in Pittsford, Michigan, to Floyd and Gail (Woods) Tom, he lived a full and active life dedicated to his family, faith, and community.
Early Life and Education
Robert’s early years were spent in Pittsford, Michigan, where he attended Hay Jay Elementary. He later graduated from Montpelier High School in 1953, laying the foundation for a diverse and impactful life.
Career and Travels
Throughout his career, Robert embraced a variety of roles, demonstrating his adaptability and work ethic. He worked as a railroad worker, real estate broker, factory worker, farmer, and auctioneer. For many years, he traveled across the United States as a long-haul truck driver, experiencing the country’s diverse landscapes. His adventurous spirit extended beyond national borders, as he also enjoyed international travel, visiting the Bahamas, Mexico, the Dominican Republic, Italy, England, Germany, Switzerland, and France.
Military Service
Robert proudly served his country in the U.S. Army Airborne as a paratrooper during the Korean War. His dedication and skill were recognized through his membership in the Division Rifle Team, the Regimental Pistol Team, and Heavy Artillery. He maintained a strong sense of patriotism throughout his life, displaying his love for the United States through his appreciation for American flags, and symbols.
Faith and Community Involvement
Faith was central to Robert’s life, and he actively shared his beliefs with others. He was a dedicated member of Solid Rock Community Church in West Unity, Ohio, serving on the Missions Board for many years. He generously supported organizations such as CPC Women’s Health Resources, Kairos Prison Ministries, and the Midwest Mission Distribution Center, reflecting his commitment to service and compassion. He consistently sought opportunities to share his faith, telling those he met that his “one and only job was to bring people to Christ.”
Family and Legacy
On July 15, 1966, Robert married Janice “Lynette” Brown, and together they shared 58 years of marriage until her passing on February 27, 2025. He is survived by his children, Dan (Mayela) Tom of Columbus, OH; Sharla (Rob) Young of Montpelier, OH; and Mari Ickes of Nashville, TN; his stepson Scott Crow of Chicago, IL; and his sister Dorothy Steiner-Kirk of Fairlawn, OH. Robert was affectionately known as “Pops” or “Papa” by numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren.
Final Act of Generosity and Celebration of Life
In a final act of generosity, Robert donated his body for scientific research. A Celebration of Life was held on December 13, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. At Thompson-Geesey Funeral Home in Montpelier, Ohio, with visitation beginning at 10:00 a.m. The family requested attendees to wear red, white, or blue to honor Robert’s love of country. Guests were invited to share their favorite memories of him during the service.
Memorial Contributions
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to CPC Women’s Health Resources, Kairos Prison Ministries, Midwest Mission Distribution Center, or CHP Inpatient Hospice, continuing Robert’s legacy of service and compassion.
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