New Zealand Teacher Censured After Late-Night TikTok Messages Leave Students ‘Sick to the Stomach’
A New Zealand primary school teacher has been censured for serious misconduct after sending persistent, late-night TikTok messages to 11-year-old students. The New Zealand Teachers Disciplinary Tribunal found that the teacher’s actions breached professional boundaries, leaving two children feeling “sick to the stomach.”
The Details of the Misconduct
Grant Daniel Spicer, who served as the head of ICT and the lead teacher for the digital curriculum at Rototuna Primary School, began messaging an 11-year-old pupil, referred to as Student A, around 9 p.m. On July 7, 2023. During these exchanges, Spicer complimented the student’s outfit and questioned what time she intended to go to sleep.
The tribunal noted a concerning pattern: Spicer was aware that professional guidelines prohibited teachers from texting children. He explicitly told Student A that they needed to block each other since “teachers can’t text kids.” Despite this admission, the behavior continued through a different channel.
After Student A provided the TikTok details for another 11-year-old pupil, Student B, Spicer immediately followed the second child and began messaging her at 10:16 p.m. Student B reported feeling “off” and “sick” after Spicer complimented her hair. Even after telling Student B that he had to remove her because “teachers aren’t really meant to follow kids,” he asked her to “promise” to add him back whenever she wanted to chat. In one instance, he told a pupil, “you should come, like, spot me.”
Tribunal Rulings and Penalties
The New Zealand Teachers Disciplinary Tribunal determined that Spicer’s conduct constituted serious misconduct. The tribunal has issued the following sanctions:

- Official Censure: Spicer has been formally censured for his actions.
- Register Annotation: His professional register entry will be annotated for a period of two years.
- Mandatory Training: The Teaching Council must impose conditions on any future practising certificate Spicer holds, including the requirement to complete a professional development course focused on maintaining professional boundaries.
Key Takeaways: Professional Boundaries in the Digital Age
This case highlights the critical importance of maintaining strict boundaries between educators and students, particularly on social media platforms. Key points include:
- Platform Irrelevance: Professional boundaries apply to all communication channels, including TikTok, regardless of whether the interaction is deemed “social.”
- Awareness is Not Compliance: Acknowledging that a rule exists (e.g., stating “teachers can’t text kids”) does not excuse the act of breaking that rule.
- Impact on Minors: Communication that an adult might perceive as harmless can leave children feeling distressed, “off,” or physically ill.
Looking Forward
The decision by the tribunal serves as a stark reminder of the trust placed in educators and the severe consequences that follow when that trust is violated. By requiring mandatory boundary training and annotating Spicer’s professional record, the Teaching Council aims to ensure such breaches of conduct are not repeated and that student safety remains the primary priority in the digital classroom.
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