Dutch Musicians Suzan & Freek Embrace Parenthood

Dutch musicians Suzan Stortelder and Freek Rikkerink are adjusting to life with their son, Sef, born on November 30, 2025. The couple recently shared insights into their experiences over the past twelve weeks, highlighting both the joys and challenges of new parenthood.

A Cautious Beginning

Freek described the drive home from the hospital with their newborn as a cautious experience, stating he felt compelled to brake for every bump in the road. “I reckon I have braked at every bump along the way, what a responsibility you feel from the moment you hold your child in your hands for the first time,” he shared on Instagram (@suzanenfreek).

Finding Presence in the Moment

The couple has found parenthood profoundly grounding. “A little guppy like that helps you to just be in the now,” Freek wrote, capturing the essence of their newfound focus on the present moment. Shorty News reports on the couple’s reflections.

Adjusting to Fatherhood

Freek admitted that adjusting to fatherhood hasn’t been without its moments. “Sometimes it takes some getting used to how, as a father, you can sometimes feel like the fifth wheel in the car,” he shared. Despite this, he cherishes moments like holding his son “sleepy” on his shoulder after a feeding and helping him burp.

Admiration for Suzan

Freek expressed deep admiration for Suzan, observing, “It’s so beautiful how I’ve seen Suus change and grow as a mother, and how I observe them both enjoying breastfeeding so much.” Shorty News highlighted this sentiment.

A New World of Parenthood

Suzan and Freek describe their new life as entering “a whole new world,” filled with the details of early parenthood – hydrophilic cloths, tummy time, contrast cards, and developmental milestones. They recounted being moved to tears by their son’s first smile, noting that the word “proud” has taken on a deeper meaning. “We have both never been as proud as last week, when Sef slept through the night for the first time,” they shared. LINDA.nl details their experiences.

Sharing Their Journey

The couple continues to share updates from their “parent life” on social media, offering a glimpse into their journey as new parents. TikTok showcases heartfelt moments captured through photos expressing a timeless connection.