Olcay Gulsen Denies Claim She Wouldn’t Date a Man with a Stoma

Dutch entrepreneur Olcay Gulsen has publicly refuted statements made by her ex-partner, radio personality Ruud de Wild, regarding her alleged unwillingness to date a man with a stoma. The dispute arose after de Wild discussed the matter on the television program Het Waren Twee Fantastische Dagen, sparking a swift response from Gulsen via social media.

De Wild’s Initial Claim

During his appearance on Het Waren Twee Fantastische Dagen, Ruud de Wild stated that Olcay Gulsen had told him she would not desire to be in a relationship with a man who had a stoma. He recounted this during a discussion about his own cancer diagnosis and temporary demand for a stoma.

Gulsen’s Response

Olcay Gulsen vehemently denied de Wild’s claim, expressing her disappointment with his public statement. In a video posted on Instagram, she stated, “I never said that and the opposite is true.” She further emphasized that she had supported de Wild throughout his illness, stating she was “day and night” there for him during his cancer journey.

Gulsen described feeling hurt by being portrayed as someone unwilling to support a partner with a stoma, particularly given her consistent support for de Wild during his health struggles. She as well noted that their relationship continued for years after de Wild’s short-term apply of a stoma.

Further Fallout and Contact

Gulsen also addressed receiving negative reactions and even threats following de Wild’s comments, stating she found it “unfair” that she was being subjected to criticism and that her family was also being targeted. She revealed she contacted de Wild following the public discussion, and he subsequently addressed the issue on his radio show.

Background on De Wild’s Cancer Diagnosis

Ruud de Wild was diagnosed with bowel cancer in early 2021. Following treatment and surgery, he is now in remission. The experience significantly impacted his life, and he has spoken publicly about the challenges he faced.

This dispute highlights the sensitive nature of health-related issues within personal relationships and the potential for miscommunication and differing recollections of past events.