Come See Me in the Good Light: A Poignant Portrait of Love and Loss
Ryan White’s 2025 documentary, Come See Me in the Good Light, offers an intimate and often humorous exploration of life, mortality, and love, centered around poet and activist Andrea Gibson and their wife, Megan Falley. The film, which premiered at the 2025 Sundance Film Festival, has garnered critical acclaim and resonated with audiences for its raw honesty and celebration of resilience.
A Life Intertwined with Art and Advocacy
Andrea Gibson, a celebrated spoken word performer, has built a career on vulnerability, fearlessly sharing personal experiences through poetry. Come See Me in the Good Light delves into Gibson’s life, tracing their journey of self-discovery, identity, and the impact of trauma. The documentary highlights how Gibson’s art intertwines with their advocacy for the LGBTQ+ community and broader social justice issues.1
Facing a Terminal Diagnosis
The film intimately portrays Gibson’s battle with ovarian cancer, initially diagnosed in 2021. After undergoing chemotherapy and a hysterectomy, the cancer returned, leading Gibson and Falley to confront the possibility of a limited future together.2 The documentary doesn’t shy away from the harsh realities of illness, but it frames the narrative around living fully in the present moment.
The Power of Partnership
At the heart of Come See Me in the Good Light is the profound love between Gibson and Falley. The film showcases their unwavering support for each other, navigating grief, hope, and the complexities of a life altered by illness. It reveals Falley’s strength and grace as she balances her own emotions with the need to be present for Gibson.3
Behind the Camera: A Collaborative Effort
The documentary was conceived by Tig Notaro and producer Stef Willen, longtime friends of Gibson and Falley. They brought Jessica Hargrave and Ryan White on board to direct and produce the film.1 White, known for his previous documentaries Ask Dr. Ruth (2019) and Assassins (2020), crafted a narrative that feels both deeply personal and universally relatable. The project similarly received support from executive producers Sara Bareilles and Brandi Carlile, who contributed the original song “Salt Then Sour Then Sweet.”1
Critical Reception and Awards
Come See Me in the Good Light premiered at the Sundance Film Festival on January 25, 2025, where it won the Festival Favorite Award and received positive reviews.1 It was included on the National Board of Review Top 5 Documentaries of 2025 and has received numerous awards and nominations, including recognition from the Academy Awards, Satellite Awards, and Film Independent Spirit Awards.1
Availability
Come See Me in the Good Light was released on Apple TV+ on November 14, 2025.1