Doja Cat Reveals Struggle with Borderline Personality Disorder
Doja Cat, the Grammy-winning artist, has publicly shared her experience with borderline personality disorder (BPD). The 30-year-old revealed her diagnosis in a TikTok video on Friday, March 13, while defending fellow artist Chappell Roan against criticism for expressing discomfort in public settings.
Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder
Borderline personality disorder is a mental health condition that impacts how individuals perceive themselves and others, according to the Mayo Clinic. It is characterized by a pattern of unstable relationships, impulsivity and a distorted self-image, often making daily life challenging.
Doja Cat’s Personal Journey
In the TikTok video, Doja Cat explained that she has learned to mask her true emotions over the years, pretending to enjoy things she doesn’t and appearing happy when she isn’t. “I’ve learned from a highly young age to pretend that I like stuff, to pretend that I’m happy, to pretend that I don’t like stuff that I do, to appear like everything is okay,” she stated. “It caught up with me, and I think it always does for people.”
She further shared that she has been “struggling with BPD” for “probably forever,” describing the condition as “agonizing.” Doja Cat also emphasized her commitment to mental health treatment, stating, “I’ve been in therapy for years now, and I am so relieved and so proud of myself. I’ve made it so far and I still make mistakes, but it is an eight-year process of curing, treatment and healing.”
Previous Mental Health Discussions
This is not the first time Doja Cat has discussed her mental health. In a 2021 interview with Rolling Stone, she revealed her struggles with ADHD and explained that she dropped out of high school at age 16 due to the challenges it presented. She described feeling “stuck” while others seemed to be progressing.
Supporting Fellow Artists
Doja Cat’s decision to speak out also stemmed from a desire to support Chappell Roan, whom she praised for her authenticity. “I had to learn how to be honest,” Doja said. “I had to learn how to be honest with myself. I lied to myself for years…and to observe her sit there, and I love it. I love that she can do that without hurting people.” She highlighted Roan’s ability to be comfortable with discomfort and to protect herself while remaining honest.
Seeking Help
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health or substance abuse, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline is available 24/7 at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for confidential support and treatment referrals. For those experiencing suicidal thoughts, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available 24/7 at 1-800-273-8255, or you can call or text 988 to connect with trained counselors.