E. Teiberienė, a Lithuanian gynaecologist with over two decades of experience, shared a patient’s statement that highlights shifting attitudes toward motherhood: a 44-year-old woman told her, “I still don’t feel ready for motherhood.”
How personal readiness influences reproductive decisions
Teiberienė explained that many women she treats express uncertainty about becoming parents, even after multiple pregnancies. She noted that some patients laugh about having more children than they originally planned, indicating a gap between expectation and reality.
Why unintended pregnancies remain common despite awareness
According to Teiberienė, unintended pregnancies often occur in cases of idiopathic infertility, where medical tests show no issues but couples continue trying without success. She added that over her career, she has encountered both joyful and emotionally challenging patient stories in her gynaecological practice.
What doctors advise patients who do not aim for children
Teiberienė stated her goal is to support patients who do not wish to become parents, emphasizing that no one should feel pressured to have children. She said she frequently discusses contraception options with her patients to help them make informed choices.
How pregnancy termination affects long-term health and emotions
She warned that terminating a pregnancy can negatively impact both physical health and emotional well-being, increasing the risk of future complications. Teiberienė stressed that women should understand these potential consequences when making reproductive decisions.
How societal attitudes toward motherhood are changing
Teiberienė recalled a case involving a 16-year-old high-achieving student who gave birth but felt unprepared for motherhood, leading to the child being raised by her aunt without knowing the biological mother’s identity. She observed that while unplanned pregnancies still occur across age groups, more women are now consciously choosing to avoid pregnancy.
Why patients trust Lithuanian medical professionals
Teiberienė noted that Lithuanian patients tend to trust doctors, value their professionalism, and appreciate available healthcare options. She added that Lithuanians living or working abroad often return home during holidays and recommend local doctors to others, contributing to improved perceptions of national healthcare quality.
How the Lrytas “Thank You Doctors” project supports medical staff
Lrytas is running a project called “Thank You Doctors,” featuring a series of publications that highlight patient concerns through interviews with healthcare specialists, experienced young doctors, and compassionate caregivers. The initiative invites the public to write gratitude notes to their favorite medical professionals via a coupon in the publication.
What did the 44-year-old patient tell her doctor about motherhood?
The patient said, “I still don’t feel ready for motherhood.”
How does Dr. Teiberienė approach patients who do not want children?
She supports their decision, avoids pressuring them to have children, and discusses contraception options to help them make informed choices.