older Women and Younger Men: Why It’s Breaking Taboos on flemish TV

Flemish television is seeing a shift in how older women and their sexuality are portrayed. Interaction scientist Femke De Sutter, from Ghent University (UGent), notes that audiences aren’t accustomed to seeing older women as sexually active, especially when they attract younger partners. This is especially evident in the popular TV show ‘Thuis,’ where the character Marianne has recently found a younger boyfriend, ofen referred to as a ‘toyboy‘.

De Sutter explains that discussions around sexuality in older age, and specifically for older women, have been historically absent from Flemish film and television. This lack of representation contributes to societal taboos and a limited understanding of the diverse experiences of older adults.

However, de Sutter emphasizes the importance of showcasing these relationships. By depicting older women as desirable and sexually active, television can play a crucial role in breaking down these long-held stigmas and promoting a more inclusive view of sexuality at all ages. This representation challenges traditional norms and encourages open conversations about aging and intimacy.

The storyline in ‘Thuis’ is sparking discussion and prompting viewers to reconsider their perceptions.It highlights the fact that attraction and sexual desire don’t diminish wiht age, and that relationships can flourish irrespective of age differences. This shift in representation is a positive step towards normalizing the sexuality of older women and fostering a more accepting society.