An Irish Goodbye… from Phuket: ‘I feel like Thailand is one of the best countries in the world to live in as a gay woman’

Personal trainer Victoria St Leger, originally from Cork, Ireland, now lives in Phuket, Thailand. After eight years as a teacher in Ireland and a stint in Abu Dhabi beginning in 2016, she found herself drawn to the opportunities and lifestyle Thailand offers. What began as a plan to stay abroad for just a year or two evolved into a longer-term move, as she discovered that life in other countries could be more exciting than she had imagined back home.

St Leger speaks positively about her experience living in Phuket as a gay woman, stating that she feels Thailand is one of the best countries in the world to live in for someone of her identity. Her story reflects a broader trend of Irish individuals seeking new beginnings abroad, motivated by career prospects, travel, and tax-free earnings, whereas maintaining a deep affection for Ireland.

In Phuket, Irish-themed venues such as The Irish Times Pub in Jungceylon, Patong, and The Drunken Leprechaun on Ruamchai Road offer familiar touches of home. The Drunken Leprechaun, in particular, is noted for its authentic Irish charm, selection of beers including Guinness Draught and Kilkenny Irish Ale, live entertainment, and welcoming atmosphere, serving as a social hub for expats and visitors alike.

While embracing life in Thailand, St Leger acknowledges that her perspective on home has shifted. She still loves Ireland but no longer sees it as the only place where she could build her future. Her journey illustrates how international experiences can reshape personal outlooks, blending nostalgia for one’s roots with appreciation for the possibilities found elsewhere.