Finding Strength in the Face of Young-Onset Alzheimer’s: Maureen Garry’s Story

A Kildare woman’s journey with young-onset Alzheimer’s disease is shedding light on the realities of living with dementia and challenging societal stigmas. Maureen Garry, 68, received her diagnosis shortly after widowhood, while raising four young children, a period she describes as terrifying, and isolating. Her story underscores the importance of understanding, support, and community for those navigating this challenging condition.

Understanding Young-Onset Dementia

Young-onset dementia, defined as dementia diagnosed before the age of 65, affects a growing number of individuals. Dementia is an umbrella term encompassing conditions that cause brain damage, with Alzheimer’s disease being the most prevalent form. Alzheimer’s disease and vascular dementia can occur simultaneously, as experienced by Maureen Garry.

A Life Interrupted, Strength Rediscovered

Maureen’s diagnosis dramatically altered her life. Faced with the responsibility of single parenthood and a progressive neurological condition, she made challenging decisions, including relinquishing her ability to drive, despite recently purchasing a novel car. “I never got to drive it. I couldn’t capture the chance,” she explained, highlighting the practical challenges and safety concerns faced by individuals with dementia.

As the condition progressed, everyday tasks became increasingly difficult, impacting Maureen’s independence. She now relies on the support of her family, who live nearby, including her four adult children and seven grandchildren.

The Power of Community and Advocacy

Maureen emphasizes the importance of breaking down the stigma surrounding dementia. “People often don’t really understand what dementia is, and I think that’s the biggest misunderstanding of all,” she stated. She actively engages with the Irish Dementia Working Group, a national advocacy organization dedicated to improving supports and raising awareness. “Everybody matters. Everyone has a nugget of wisdom…We all have a purpose and being a member…helps us all discover that purpose.”

She advocates for open communication and kindness, suggesting that individuals with dementia clearly state their condition when seeking assistance. “If I am out and I need help, I’ll turn to the person beside me and say, ‘I have a type of dementia – would you mind helping me, please?’”

Advice for Those Newly Diagnosed

To those receiving a new diagnosis, Maureen offers reassurance and encouragement. “This is not the finish – it’s the start of a new beginning,” she advises. She stresses the importance of seeking support, connecting with organizations like The Alzheimer Society of Ireland, and focusing on positive memories. “Don’t look back unless it makes you smile,” she encourages.

Creating Dementia-Inclusive Communities

Initiatives like the Alzheimer Society of Ireland’s Friends of ASI are working to empower communities to better understand and support individuals living with dementia. Helen McLeane, manager of the Kildare Day Care Centre, emphasizes the transformative impact of community awareness and simple acts of kindness. A dementia-inclusive community event hosted by the charity’s Friends of ASI initiative took place at the Keadeen Hotel in Newbridge on February 26, 2026, bringing together organizations and residents to explore ways to improve support for those affected by dementia.

The Alzheimer Society of Ireland National Helpline is available on 1800 341 341 or via alzheimer.ie.