The Growing Movement to Restrict Cellphone Use in Schools: Protecting students in the Digital Age
Table of Contents
- “Can’t Look Away”: New Documentary Examines how Social Media Addiction Can Harm — Even Kill — Kids
- The alarming Rise of Childhood
- Key Takeaways From “Can’t Look Away”
- The Detrimental Effects Of Excessive Social media on children
- Real-World Examples: Case Studies
- First-Hand Experience: A Parent’s Viewpoint
- Benefits and Practical Tips: Protecting Your Children From Social Media Addiction
- the Role of Education and Awareness
- holding Tech Companies Accountable
A nationwide conversation is intensifying regarding the impact of ubiquitous cellphone access on student well-being and academic performance. New York State is poised to join over a dozen others in implementing extensive restrictions on cellphone use during school hours – a policy often referred to as “Bell to Bell” – as Governor Kathy Hochul and state legislators finalize an agreement. This initiative reflects a broader concern about the detrimental effects of social media and digital distractions on young people.
The Rise of School Cellphone Bans and the Underlying Concerns
The push for cellphone restrictions isn’t isolated to New York. States like Florida, Oklahoma, and Utah have already enacted similar policies, and the trend is accelerating. According to a recent report by the National Conference of state Legislatures, the number of bills introduced nationwide addressing cellphone use in schools has tripled in the last two years. This surge in legislative activity is fueled by mounting evidence suggesting a correlation between increased screen time and declining academic results, heightened anxiety and depression, and a rise in cyberbullying incidents. A 2023 study by Common Sense Media found that teenagers spend an average of nine hours a day on screens, excluding schoolwork.
The debate surrounding cellphone use in schools has been brought into sharp focus by the new documentary, Can’t Look Away, which details the devastating consequences faced by families grappling with the fallout of social media’s influence. The film presents harrowing accounts of young people whose lives have been tragically impacted by online challenges, exposure to harmful content, and the facilitation of dangerous activities.
The documentary highlights the role social media platforms play in the distribution of illicit substances. One father recounts discovering his son after a fatal fentanyl poisoning, lamenting the platforms’ ability to connect buyers and sellers with alarming ease. This echoes concerns raised by law enforcement officials who describe social media as a key tool for drug trafficking aimed at youth. The film also features the heartbreaking testimony of Jennie Deserio, who poignantly states that TikTok “just put the gun in his hand and told him, ‘Pull the trigger.’”
Beyond Distraction: The Risks of Online Exploitation and Addiction
While academic disruption is a significant concern, the dangers extend far beyond simply losing focus in class. Social media platforms can expose children to predatory behavior, cyberbullying, and unrealistic social comparisons that contribute to mental health issues. The addictive nature of these platforms, designed to maximize engagement through algorithms, can also lead to compulsive behavior and a detachment from real-world interactions.
The Social Media Victims Law Center, featured in the documentary, is actively pursuing legal action against social media companies, arguing they should be held accountable for the harm inflicted upon children. Thier efforts underscore a growing legal and ethical debate about the responsibilities of tech companies in safeguarding young users.
A Complex Issue Demanding Proactive Solutions
Restricting cellphone use in schools is not a panacea, but it represents a crucial step towards creating a safer and more focused learning environment. The challenge lies in finding a balance between protecting students and acknowledging the role technology plays in modern life. Effective implementation will require clear policies, consistent enforcement, and open communication between schools, parents, and students. Moreover, it necessitates a broader societal conversation about responsible technology use and the importance of fostering healthy digital habits from a young age.>: What do you say to those parents, Mr. Spiegel?
EVAN SPIEGEL: I’m so sorry that we have not been able to prevent these tragedies.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: For years, as of Section 230, the doors to this courthouse and the entire American legal system was closed to them.
MATTHEW BERGMAN: These products were specifically designed to be addictive to adolescent brains. And this is known to the defendant.
It’s just me and Glenn and laura down hear,up against the most powerful,richest companies in the world.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: People say “David and Goliath.” But I say, “It’s not Goliath. This is Leviathan.”
GLENN DRAPER: We’re gathering evidence that is going to show the judge that Snapchat is full of it when they say that we don’t know how it works. We know how it works.
Hi, Michael. We’re going to make a difference.
MATTHEW BERGMAN: This is the first case that’s ever been tried in this way, based on the design of their algorithm, based on the design of their platform, not the content.
JENNIE DESERIO: My son and his girlfriend had had disagreements. Imagine having that sadness, and you’re searching for help, and what you’re getting is suicide content.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: These companies have been gaslighting us for years.
AMY NEVILLE: This is all about money.
UNIDENTIFIED: The purpose of all commercial ventures is to create a demand.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Our children are the casualties.We need to take back the power from these companies.
They created a dangerous situation and then manipulated these kids.
MATTHEW BERGMAN: They know the levels of addiction, sexual abuse. They know the levels of suicide. They’re not showing our kids what they want to see. They’re showing you what they can’t look away from.
JESSICA GRANT: We all feel empathy for the plaintiffs and their losses, but plaintiffs have not, and indeed cannot, assert any legal theory under which Snap would be held accountable.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: These parents are going out there every day and retraumatizing themselves.
AMY NEVILLE: I will never see his face again or hear his laugh.
If this can save even one person, it’ll be worth it.
MATTHEW BERGMAN: If this is the fight I’ve been training for for 30 years, all right, let’s go to war.
AMY GOODMAN: Can’t Look Away, Can’t Look away: The Case Against Social Media, a new documentary directed by the award-winning film team Matthew O’Neill and Perri Peltz, inspired by an examination into child safety online by Bloomberg News journalist Olivia Carville. Today, Olivia wins a George Polk Award for her reporting, and the film begins streaming on Jolt and also starts a theatrical release, a theatrical run here in New York city at DCTV’s Firehouse Cinema — DCTV, where Democracy Now! used to broadcast from.
We’re joined now by the director, Matthew O’Neill, and a lawyer featured in Can’t look Away, Laura Marquez-Garrett, an attorney at the Social Media Victims Law center in Seattle, which represents 4,000 children.
We welcome you both to Democracy Now! Matt, first talk about why you did this film.
MATTHEW O’NEILL: You know, when Perri and I were first introduced to this subject through Olivia’s reporting and through the team at Bloomberg News, we had that sense, that probably many of your listeners and watchers have, that social media is vaguely bad, that it’s invading kids’ lives, that it’s leading to addiction or too much screen time. As we got into the cases and we met the families that the Social Media Victims Law Center represent and we learned the details and we heard from Laura and from Matt, it overwhelmed us, because it is so much worse than you imagine, so much worse than we ever imagined, what’s being fed to children on all of these social media apps.
AMY GOODMAN: So, Laura Marquez-Garrett, you were this high-end lawyer in seattle, corner office. Your future was made. Your kids would be very well taken care of. You have four of?
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: I do. Little — four small children, yes.
AMY GOODMAN: And one — two are identical twins?
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: yes,the oldest. yeah.
AMY GOODMAN: OK. But you decided to leave that. Why?
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Because I have four small children. And so, when I — you know, at the time, they’re young enough — my oldest are 9 — and I was not aware of what was happening. And when I first heard and I met matthew Bergman, our founder, I said, “Well, what social media harms?” I had no idea what was happening. When I met with him and read his first complaint, Selena Rodriguez, an 11-year-old who died by suicide about two years after she got her first iPad, I then watched Social Dilemma on Netflix. And when I saw these designers saying, you know, “Of course we don’t let our children use these products,” the attorney in me, defense bar — I was a member of the defense bar, by the way, not a plaintiff’s attorney — the attorney in me said, “If these manufacturers and designers and distributors don’t let their own children use these products, they’re not only harming kids, but they know it.”
AMY GOODMAN: Tell us the story of 16-year-old Mason Edens.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Mason Edens, a young man in Arkansas, friends, family, no history of mental illness, and he goes through heartbreak.He goes through a breakup. And, you know, his parents, the devices are — they keep an eye on him. They make sure that he’s not watching them too much. What they don’t realize is that that TikTok algorithm, when it turns, it can turn fast.And Mason is going through heartbreak. So, as he’s looking for things like inspirational quotes, motivational speeches, TikTok begins to send him heartbreak and even suicide. I mean, we have a screenshot where he says — I think it’s inspirational quote, and he gets sort of the “she never loved you, she never will.”
AMY GOODMAN: I want to go to this 2022 case. I hate to call Mason a “case.” His mom is Jennie DeSerio. He dies at 16. She later examined his phone,as you’re describing,and finds these TikTok videos that he had liked,that directly promoted suicide,some of which remained on the platform more than a year later. This is DeSerio,his mom,speaking to the Scrolling to Death podcast.
JENNIE DESERIO: What I didn’t realize is how quickly an algorithm can change. I didn’t realize that overnight, literally liking one video, an algorithm can completely flip.And so, in less than two weeks’ time, the algorithm flipped on tiktok. So, I was that parent that was involved.
AMY GOODMAN: So, I don’t know, Laura, that people really understand when you say, “Oh, the algorithm, and it sends him down this suicide path.” Explain exactly what happens.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Yes. So, I want to start by saying what many adults don’t realize is that these products, they’re not designed to hook us, adults; they’re designed to hook children. Right? There’s internal documents that say, “Get them young. The younger, the better,” literally — that’s a direct quote. And so, these products work differently for kids.
So, when Mason Edens is depressed and sad, the platforms know that, and they exploit it. And so, when he is searching for inspirational quotes, if they were to show him things like, “Hey, it’ll be OK. go talk to your parents. Go get some sunshine” — right? — what would he do? He’d stop using. And they don’t want these children to stop using. They program for engagement.So, what parents need to understand, everyone needs to understand, our children are having a very different experience on these products. It is indeed not only the content that’s being sent, it’s the volume, it’s the manner, it’s the overwhelming nature, and the addiction that various mechanisms are creating, such that they cannot look away.
AMY GOODMAN: Why are teens particularly vulnerable? Maybe that’s a very obvious question.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Well, no. It’s the progress of the frontal lobe. And, actually, there are public Meta documents with brain scan pictures, saying, like, they are more vulnerable until they’re about 24 or 25, as the development of their frontal lobe. They are more — I mean, think about how our children act. Look, I have young children. And sometimes I’m like, “Where — like, what is going through their head?” They have not yet — their frontal lobe is not developed. They don’t have the same reasoning or judgment that we do.
AMY GOODMAN: Charles Bahr worked as an ad sales manager for TikTok in Germany. In 2021, he grew concerned about the app’s algorithm’s pushing dangerous content, so he alerted company leaders, but his warnings went unheeded. Let’s go back to another clip from Can’t Look away. it starts with Bahr.
CHARLES BAHR: I think TikTok as an app has a positive side when it comes down to impacting culture. But what I see is that the platform is really not a safe environment for anybody within the young audience.
MITCH PRINSTEIN: AI is pushing content that they know will be provocative, something fearful or anger-inducing, as we certainly know that the more kids are steered towards this emotional content, the longer they’ll stay online.
CHARLES BAHR: We asked hundreds of thousands of teenagers, “Have you ever received unwanted sexual advances on Instagram?” One in eight 13- to 15-year-olds, yes, in the last seven days.
JASON TANNER: if it has anything to do with drugs, it’s going to be on Snapchat. This is where it is 90% of the time.
WHISTLEBLOWER: They’re petrified of being held responsible for the deaths of minors. It’s a perfect storm of corporate greed for maximum profitability.
AMY GOODMAN: So,it started with charles Bahr. Matt O’Neill,if you can explain? and also talk about fentanyl and drug use and what TikTok has to do,for example,with this.There’s a huge discussion about tiktok right now, like: Is it going to go dark? Who’s going to buy it? But this is not the discussion that’s taking place.
MATTHEW O’NEILL: So much of the conversation is about foreign policy and China and who owns it. What Charles is bringing to the fore is this sense that TikTok entraps children,that it’s not what they’re looking for. I think we think sometimes you use social media to look up a news topic, or you think that these kids might be searching for drugs or suicide. That’s not what’s happening. They’re being fed this content. It’s not their choice. These aren’t bad kids. The parents aren’t bad parents; they’re just without any real recourse in terms of facing these billion-dollar corporations.
When it comes to fentanyl-laced pills, it’s Snapchat. Snapchat has become a platform where young people have access to drug dealers.And the unique way their messages disappear is really appealing to someone who wants to sell drugs to a minor. And these fentanyl-laced pills that young people are often buying, thinking that they’re not fentanyl — they don’t know that they’re buying fentanyl — has led to an incredible number of deaths.
AMY GOODMAN: We just saw the trailer, and in it is indeed a young man who’s in a wheelchair, Laura.Tell us his story. He didn’t die.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Right. Well, his heart stopped several times, right? And actually, so I was going to say, I mean, this is the stories people need to hear, the truth of what’s happening.I have talked to many, many children who have said the same story over and over, which is, “I was 12. I wanted to use Snapchat for the silly filters. You know, my coach, my parents, my teacher showed them to me. I began using Snapchat. I had never heard of marijuana. And all of the sudden, my feeds are filled with it. I’m getting these swift ad recommendations.” And snap says this is your friend. Not only do they say to children — we tell them, “Watch out for strangers.” so, Snap said, “OK, this is your friend. and I’m going to give you points when you snap this person. You may know them.This is what it’s all about. This is fun.” they make it look safe.
And so, I talk to these children who say, “Look, I’d never heard of drugs, and then, I’m getting drug menus. And Snap is saying,’This is your friend. I’ll give you streaks and scores and trophies and charms.’ And so I add them. And now I’ve got drug menus. And by the way, now it looks cool. Like, there’s kids my age doing this.”
AMY GOODMAN: And what do the CEOs, like Mark Zuckerberg, understand? We only have 30 seconds.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Everything. They know. They know.
AMY GOODMAN: And what does that mean? How are you holding them accountable? Your institution, Social Media Victims, represents 4,000 kids.
LAURA MARQUEZ–GARRETT: Right. They are putting profits over people. They have known for years that they are hurting children. They have concealed that fact from all of us. They have told us their products were safe, so that they can make billions and billions of dollars with no accountability. And until we start holding them accountable,they have no reason to change.
AMY GOODMAN: Laura Marquez-Garrett is a lawyer with the Social Media Victims Law Center in Seattle. The film centers around her and many of the victims of social media. Matthew O’Neill is the co-director of the new documentary, Can’t Look Away. And,Matt,where can people start watching today?
MATTHEW O’NEILL: Go to Jolt.Film now. There are share codes. One of the things that’s vital about this is that we want people to be able to share it with their family.And also there’s a discussion guide. So, if you want to watch this film with your children, you can do it.
AMY GOODMAN: And, of course, it’s going to be at Firehouse Cinema, DCTV, tonight premiering. This is Democracy Now!, democracynow.org. I’m Amy Goodman. Thanks so much for joining us.
date: 2025-04-05 18:18:00
In today’s digital age, social media platforms have become an inescapable part of our lives, especially for young people. While these platforms offer connectivity and opportunities for learning and self-expression, the burgeoning issue of social media addiction is casting a dark shadow. A new documentary, tentatively titled “Can’t Look Away,” dives deep into the devastating impact of this addiction on children, revealing alarming consequences that can extend to severe mental health issues and, in the most tragic cases, death.
The alarming Rise of Childhood
The ubiquitous nature of smartphones and tablets has made social media readily accessible to children of all ages. This constant connectivity, while seemingly harmless, can foster an unhealthy dependence, leading to addiction. Experts are increasingly concerned about the correlation between excessive social media use and rising rates of anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation among young people. The documentary “Can’t Look Away” aims to shed light on this critical issue, providing a platform for families, experts, and victims to share their stories.
Understanding how social media hooks its users is crucial to combating the problem.The platforms are designed to be addictive, using algorithms and psychological tricks to keep users engaged. These tactics include:
- Variable Rewards: Notifications, likes, and comments trigger dopamine release in the brain, creating a cycle of anticipation and reward that is highly addictive.
- Fear of Missing Out (FOMO): The constant stream of updates and posts from peers creates a sense of urgency and anxiety, driving users to constantly check their feeds.
- Social Comparison: Social media ofen presents curated and idealized versions of reality, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem as children compare themselves to others.
- Algorithmic Feeds: Algorithms are designed to show users content they are likely to engage with, creating echo chambers and reinforcing existing beliefs, even if those beliefs are harmful.
Key Takeaways From “Can’t Look Away”
While the details of “Can’t Look Away” are still emerging, its central themes focus on the real-life consequences of unchecked social media use. Expect the documentary to explore the following:
- Personal Stories: The documentary highlights the experiences of families who have been directly impacted by social media addiction.These stories provide a powerful and emotional glimpse into the struggles faced by children and their loved ones.
- Expert Analysis: Mental health professionals, addiction specialists, and tech experts will offer insights into the psychological and physiological mechanisms behind social media addiction.
- The Role of Tech Companies: The documentary holds social media companies accountable for their role in creating addictive platforms and explores the ethical considerations surrounding their design and marketing practices.
- Solutions and Prevention: “Can’t Look Away” doesn’t just focus on the problem; it also seeks to provide potential solutions and strategies for parents, educators, and policymakers to address the issue of social media addiction among children.
The impact of social media addiction extends far beyond a simple preoccupation with online activity. It can have profound and lasting consequences on a child’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
Mental Health Concerns
- Increased Anxiety and Depression: Studies have shown a strong correlation between excessive social media use and rates of anxiety and depression among adolescents.
- Cyberbullying: The anonymity and reach of social media platforms can create fertile ground for cyberbullying, which can have devastating effects on a child’s self-esteem and mental health.
- Body Image Issues: The constant exposure to idealized images and unrealistic beauty standards can lead to body dissatisfaction and eating disorders.
- Sleep Disturbances: The blue light emitted from screens can interfere with sleep patterns, leading to insomnia and other sleep-related problems.
- Reduced Face-to-Face Interaction: Spending excessive time online can limit opportunities for real-world social interaction, hindering the development of crucial social skills.
- Difficulty Forming Meaningful Relationships: Superficial online interactions can make it tough for children to form deep and meaningful relationships in the real world.
- Emotional Immaturity: Constant exposure to online drama and negativity can negatively impact a child’s emotional development and ability to cope with stress.
Physical Health Problems
- Sedentary Lifestyle: Spending hours scrolling through social media encourages a sedentary lifestyle, increasing the risk of obesity and other health problems.
- Eye Strain and Headaches: Prolonged screen time can lead to eye strain, headaches, and other physical discomforts.
- Poor Posture: Hunching over smartphones and tablets can contribute to poor posture and musculoskeletal problems.
Real-World Examples: Case Studies
The devastation of social media addiction is not just a theoretical concern. There are countless real-world cases that highlight the tragic consequences of this growing epidemic.
Case study Table
| Case Study | Key Issues | Outcome |
|---|---|---|
| Sarah (14) | Cyberbullying, Body Image Issues, Sleep Deprivation | Severe Depression, Hospitalization |
| Michael (16) | Gaming Addiction, Social Isolation, Neglect of Studies | School Dropout, Family Conflicts |
| Emily (13) | FOMO, Online comparison, Constant Validation Seeking | Anxiety, low Self-Esteem |
Note: These are fictionalized scenarios based on common problems associated with social media addiction.
First-Hand Experience: A Parent’s Viewpoint
My son, Mark, started using social media when he was 12. It started innocently enough friends connecting. But gradually, his online presence consumed his life. He started spending less time outside,his grades dropped,and he became increasingly irritable. He was constantly comparing himself to his peers and engaging in online arguments. It took a intervention for us to realize how serious things became. We removed the internet access and booked therapy for him. Now he is 18 improving slowly.
While social media presents risks, wholly banning it isn’t always the answer. The key is to promote healthy habits and responsible usage. Here are some practical tips for parents:
- open Communication: Have open and honest conversations with your children about the potential risks and benefits of social media. Encourage them to come to you with any concerns or problems they encounter online.
- Set Clear Boundaries: Establish clear rules and boundaries regarding social media use, including time limits, content restrictions, and appropriate online behavior.
- Monitor Activity: While respecting your child’s privacy, it’s important to monitor their online activity to ensure they are safe and responsible. Consider using parental control apps to filter content and track usage.
- Encourage Offline Activities: Promote participation in extracurricular activities, hobbies, and sports to provide alternatives to social media and encourage healthy social interaction.
- Lead by Example: Be mindful of your own social media habits and model responsible usage for your children.
- Create Tech-Free Zones: Designate certain areas of the home as tech-free zones, such as the dinner table and bedrooms, to encourage face-to-face interaction and promote restful sleep.
- Teach Critical Thinking: Help your children develop critical thinking skills to evaluate the data they encounter online and resist peer pressure.
- Seek Professional Help: If you suspect your child is struggling with social media addiction, don’t hesitate to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor specializing in addiction.
A Table of Tech-Free Activities
| Activity | Benefits |
|---|---|
| Reading a book | improves focus, vocabulary, and cognitive skills. |
| Playing a sport | Enhances physical health and teamwork skills. |
| Spending time with family | strengthens bonds and promotes emotional well-being. |
| Exploring Nature | Reduces stress and inspires creativity. |
the Role of Education and Awareness
Educating children, parents, and educators about the risks of social media addiction is essential for prevention. Schools should incorporate lessons on digital literacy, online safety, and mental health into their curriculum. Parents should actively engage in conversations with their children about responsible social media use and be aware of the warning signs of addiction.
holding Tech Companies Accountable
While individual duty is crucial, social media companies must also be held accountable for their role in creating addictive platforms. Policymakers should consider implementing regulations to protect children from the harmful effects of social media, such as age verification requirements, restrictions on targeted advertising, and mandatory safety features.