The Discreet Signal for Help: A Lifeline for Women Facing Violence
In April 2020, as the COVID-19 pandemic gripped the world, the Canadian Women’s Foundation launched a crucial initiative: a discreet hand signal designed to help individuals experiencing gender-based violence communicate their need for help during lockdowns and beyond. This simple gesture, intended for leverage during video calls but applicable in any situation, provided a vital lifeline when traditional avenues for seeking assistance were compromised.
The Rise in Gender-Based Violence During the Pandemic
Disasters, including pandemics, often correlate with a surge in gender-based violence. Public health directives, such as stay-at-home orders, while necessary for controlling the spread of disease, can inadvertently increase the risk for individuals in abusive relationships by trapping them with their abusers. The Canadian Women’s Foundation recognized this heightened vulnerability and sought a way to empower individuals to discreetly signal for help.
How to Perform the Signal
The signal is intentionally subtle and easy to remember. To perform it, turn your palm towards the person you are trying to communicate with (or towards the camera during a video call). Then, tuck your thumb into your palm and close your fingers around your thumb. This gesture, as illustrated by the Canadian Women’s Foundation, is designed to be inconspicuous yet recognizable to those who are aware of its meaning.
Responding to the Signal
Recognizing the signal is only the first step. It’s crucial to respond appropriately and safely. The Canadian Women’s Foundation emphasizes the importance of contacting the person in distress through a secure channel.
- Secure Communication: If possible, communicate via phone to allow for direct conversation.
- Yes/No Questions: Ask questions that can be answered with a simple “yes” or “no” to minimize the risk of alerting an abuser who might be listening.
- Texting as an Alternative: If a phone call isn’t safe, use text messaging. Ask general questions that are easy to answer safely and suggest a call when the individual is able.
Beyond initiating secure communication, it’s vital to offer support and listen without judgment. Allow the person to express their needs and concerns. Finally, direct them to available resources, including emergency services, shelters and support organizations.
Resources for Support
If you or someone you realize is in immediate danger, contact emergency services (police, fire department, or ambulance) immediately. Additional resources are available through:
Remember, recognizing and responding to this discreet signal can make a life-saving difference. It’s a testament to the power of community awareness and the importance of providing support to those experiencing violence.